My guests will arrive in an hour, and I still have to do some cooking and cleaning, but it is Monday, and my mind has gone blank for #MicroblogMondays ... so when in doubt, repost!
Those of us who go through loss, infertility, or end up living without children often end up feeling less like a woman, and decidedly unattractive. When I was going through my second ectopic, an internet friend suggested I go out and buy myself some sexy underwear. At the time, sexy was the last thing I felt like - it was feeling sexy that had caused all this trouble, after all!
But one day I did as she suggested, and although I might not have felt particularly sexy, I did feel
- younger, more pert
- more feminine (which was particularly important at the time)
- more beautiful, and
- a wee bit naughty.
Whatever size you are, whatever you might be doing, don’t underestimate the rejuvenating power of some new underwear, or a sexy new bra. They lift your spirits as well as those cheeks and boobs!
PS. Based on the comments I received first time around, feel free to replace underwear with shoes - they have similar beneficial results.