tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post3339016890450044156..comments2024-03-29T09:31:53.769+13:00Comments on No Kidding in NZ: Talking with the husbandMalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-12185606954520118452013-10-30T12:29:43.807+13:002013-10-30T12:29:43.807+13:00Klara, I promise to post more regularly now I'...Klara, I promise to post more regularly now I'm home!Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-64987555611047863042013-10-27T21:09:14.776+13:002013-10-27T21:09:14.776+13:00dear Mali,
I know you are not happy that your wond...dear Mali,<br />I know you are not happy that your wonderful holidays has just finished.<br />But I am more then happy that you are safely back home.<br />Because - this means that I will have to wait less then 1 month for your next post on nokidding blog. <br />Yes. I admit. I am selfish.<br />(as an excuse: I am really missing your posts!)<br />lots of love from Slovenia,Klarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17028863974858724867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-29291116034244214402013-10-22T04:34:05.377+13:002013-10-22T04:34:05.377+13:00It's been fun to keep up with your travels. Li...It's been fun to keep up with your travels. Like you, I've got a keeper -- a top notch companion, lover and friend. We keep our relationship lively and continue to learn new things about each other and ourselves. I've seen where that's not the same for friends who are stressed out raising children. I've observed behaviors similar to what you describe in restaurants with couples who don't seem to know each other any more staring off into space. Pamela T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11474998003921896431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-25751187149658513242013-10-05T04:30:49.804+13:002013-10-05T04:30:49.804+13:00I love that I don't have to share my husband w...I love that I don't have to share my husband with any body, if we had kids I would. I love having him all to myself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-66666619313699754082013-10-04T12:25:37.311+13:002013-10-04T12:25:37.311+13:00It's true how folks can find themselves (while...It's true how folks can find themselves (while being alone or with each other) in environments not familiar to them- that reminds me of the book "Eat, Pray, Love"- and I'm glad that you have that strength and knowledge that you will be there for each other- that's the hub of the relationship, you know? :) Wolfershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12937704236275533865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-77391857161345585172013-10-03T12:00:15.705+13:002013-10-03T12:00:15.705+13:00My husband and I had a similar conversation on our...My husband and I had a similar conversation on our trip to San Francisco in June. We were only there for six days, we never had a fight or disagreement about anything, but we saw several couples in yelling fights. So we asked each other why we hadn't fought about anything on the trip. I think only have to compromise with each other for what to see next or where to eat helps that a lot. We don't have to try to pick something that would appeal to a child or a sullen teenager (we saw many of those too), and we know there will be more trips after this one, so we will both eventually get exactly what we want. For people with kids, I know the big trips are less frequent, so it probably seems more crucial to get your own way when on a trip. We definitely enjoyed only having ourselves to answer to.Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07318827219058451652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-85833419311005829522013-10-01T08:28:43.196+13:002013-10-01T08:28:43.196+13:00Reminds me of the very first time I ever went on a...Reminds me of the very first time I ever went on a trip with DP. We had only met three months before, and he suggested we drive a car from Amsterdam to Namibia. I chickened out, convinced it would ruin our your relationship, and we went canoeing on a tame trip in Sweden instead.<br />Later I found out he didn't have a passport or any real travel experience. Can't help but wonder if we would have survived, together. And if so, if we would be more adventurous in our travel now...<br />So um, meant to say: glad you realise your relationship is something special!<br />Hope you will draw light from it in times of strain.Valeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10210187335704409247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-14193605070917563732013-10-01T01:34:26.426+13:002013-10-01T01:34:26.426+13:00LOVE this posttttt...I'm glad you've had a...LOVE this posttttt...I'm glad you've had a chance to do a trip like this. :-) GOOD LUCK in adjusting to life back home! Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-83300865561212804752013-09-30T16:46:10.244+13:002013-09-30T16:46:10.244+13:00Lovely & true!Lovely & true! Klarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17028863974858724867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-6812508986285026782013-09-30T14:06:38.682+13:002013-09-30T14:06:38.682+13:00I'm glad that you've had a good trip and I...I'm glad that you've had a good trip and I LOVE that you appreciate your relationship as it is.Nellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03273965620333616949noreply@blogger.com