tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post8704321256625453064..comments2024-03-28T06:32:27.436+13:00Comments on No Kidding in NZ: Miscellaneous Thoughts on Microblog MondayMalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-79814726712069457572016-11-06T14:08:34.393+13:002016-11-06T14:08:34.393+13:00Woohoo for the return of the mojo! I feel your rel...Woohoo for the return of the mojo! I feel your relief piece in the limbo. I hope to exit the limbo one way, but I am at a point where it will be a relief no matter how I end this journey...which also makes me feel guilty. Hmmm. Oh man, you saw Storks? I saw the trailer and was immediately positive that it was NOT going to be the movie for me. I'm glad you had a good visit with your niece, though. And hooray for people normalizing these experiences so they're not so hush hush anymore. Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-66153088448308472952016-11-03T16:18:06.786+13:002016-11-03T16:18:06.786+13:00The visit with your niece sounds lovely. And I rea...The visit with your niece sounds lovely. And I really liked your point #5. Limbo is so hard. Getting out of it IS a relief.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-28895185395073472242016-11-03T05:57:51.879+13:002016-11-03T05:57:51.879+13:00Hi Mali thanks so much for mentioning my limbo pos...Hi Mali thanks so much for mentioning my limbo post. It's funny you should say that you felt that temporary overwhelming sense of relief and freedom when you thought about what life might be like after that final IVF if you didn’t get pregnant. I felt the same sensation when we decided to stop all treatment completely - I thought it meant I was OK, but it was also temporary, a strange elation in reaction to the decision. It fizzled away into a horrible slump where I felt like I'd totally lost my mojo. But recently I had the distinct feeling (slowly and surely, as opposed to the fake euphoria I felt when I stopped IVF) that I was coming out of the slump and getting my groove back - as with you, I couldn't point to any real evidence as such, but it has proved to be true. <br />So glad you are getting yours back. I think after the hard work is mostly 'over', it definitely does come back. <br />Hope that makes sense, I seem to always be leaving comments at 5pm at work, the worst part of the afternoon!https://differentshoresblog.wordpress.com/https://www.blogger.com/profile/16936131757889957955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-21381607101439174892016-11-01T09:00:58.931+13:002016-11-01T09:00:58.931+13:00Yay for mojo!! And it sounds like the visit with y...Yay for mojo!! And it sounds like the visit with your niece was a lovely one.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5725106142359702200.post-85301803308545582642016-10-31T18:51:47.952+13:002016-10-31T18:51:47.952+13:00dear Mali,
I am very happy that your mojo for lif...dear Mali, <br />I am very happy that your mojo for life is back! <br />And I am happy to see that your mojo for blogging is back; it is lovely to start a new day by reading 6 comments from you.<br />lots of love from sLOVEnia,<br />KlaraKlarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17028863974858724867noreply@blogger.com