No Kidding in NZ

Some of our ALI friends - those who either went on to parent, and those who are still hoping – can’t understand how we have embraced our ...

Recently, I’ve been thinking about the issue of what we leave behind. I’ve been prompted by reading someone else’s thoughts and fears on thi...

Last night, I received a truly lovely email from a reader, who said some very nice things about my blog. (Apologies for the bragging, but th...

Growing up, and even as a young adult, I hated uncertainty, and loved to plan. I hated waiting for things, even though I was relatively pat...

Over eleven years ago, three months after I’d learned we’d never have children, my husband and I were asked that question, and when I gave ...