About Me

This is my blog on living and loving life without children after infertility. It is a space for thoughts on my No Kidding lifestyle, the good and the bad, remembering what was lost, but more particularly, celebrating what I have. You can read a brief version of My Story here.

I love to hear from readers, and you can email me here:

nokiddinginnz at gmail (dot) com

Or find me on Instagram:

@nokiddinginnz

Currently I'm a blogger, amateur photographer, and keen traveller. I blog on A Separate Life about my everyday life.

My husband and I are the stereotypical couple without children who love to travel. I am (at) travellingMali on Instagram and there I post photos of various trips internationally, past and present, and of NZ travels, along with occasional photos from where I live.

In 2024 we travelled to Ireland, the United Kingdom and Portugal for three months, and I'm recording those travels at My 2024 Travels. Back in 2013 I travelled in Europe and the Middle East for five months, and kept a blog at Lemons to Limoncello.

I also had a travelblog some years ago, but stopped posting in 2012. You can find it at Mali's Travelalphablog.

In 2018, I undertook a daily blogging challenge at x365 Take Two.

In 2024, I had an essay published in an anthology called Otherhood: Essays being childless, childfree and child-adjacent.