18 March, 2019


I don't have a lot to say this week. I've said enough over on A Separate Life, because I knew I couldn't, shouldn't, keep silent. So this Monday, I'll just refer you to that piece.

This week in New Zealand, the question of whether we have children or not seems to be irrelevant. We have all come together. And we've come together with the support of most of the world. And I'm very grateful for that.

Sending love and strength.
Kia Kaha.


  1. Oh, Mali. I'm so sorry. I thought of you when the news came out. It is so horrible for so many reasons. Thinking of you and your country while you mourn this tragedy.

  2. My heart hurts for the pain in your community.

    I just finished reading Columbine, at Loribeth's suggestion. It brought me back to the time when that pain was right here in my backyard.

    I am abiding with you, Mali.