Oh dear, sometimes simple ideas are so hard to execute.
I’m working on the little book of my
memes as suggested a couple of weeks ago, though it turns out that production,
postage, and then potential tax complications (to be avoided as I’m only going
to cover costs) mean it’s not going to be as easy as I’d hoped, but I am
persevering and, if all goes well, hope to have something for you next week!
I found inspiration in one of my own notes, though,
particularly the quote that said, “She who is brave is free.” I realise that in
my personal life, I’ve lost sight of that in the last year or so. After all, we
have all been brave when we have had to say good-bye to hopes and dreams, and
move on to something else. It’s important for me to remember that I am, and can
be brave, and that the rewards are worth it.
Finally, I was out today and heard Christmas music (argh! –
it’s not even December yet), and so wanted to reassure many of you that one day
you’ll look forward to this time of year again, knowing you can celebrate it
the way you want to, or not at all, and the sky won’t fall in. There are lots
of blogs offering support and advice about the coming holidays, including (here and here) which is specifically for No Kidding men and women, but I also recommend
Mel’s annual piece
with advice for coping at this time of year that many of us have offered over
the years.
Don't forget! |
"We have all been brave when we have had to say good-bye to hopes and dreams, and move on to something else." This really rings true with me. Too often we assume bravery only requires facing one's fears, but we forget about the saying good-bye part and living with the pain of loss.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this reminder. May this holiday season usher in some peace for you and your family